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Old 08-11-2009, 03:08 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by ssandra View Post
Be open. Don't hide stuff
Communicate. If there is something you are not ready to talk about, say that. 'Don't lie about it.
Give trust.
Don't just talk about day to day life, but about your believes, familie, childhood etc.
Listen without judgement.
Don't try to fix things, just listen.
Only give your opinion when you are asked to, when the other is saying things that are emotional for them.
You can lop off the bottom four.

The top three are all you need when it comes to just building trust.
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