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Originally Posted by Kean  Neediness is accused as a potential turn-off when dating and mating, especially if guys show it.
Do you think it men can be perceived as needy when they try to listen to a woman or even act with curiosity about a womans' tastes, values and lifestyle? |
I dont think that definition above is neediness at all.
I think being understanding of a womans tastes, values and lifestyles means listening to them and empathizing with them, you dont have to agree with them, it is annoying when someone (m or f) agrees with everything you say just to please you. I had a boyfriend like that once and it annoyed me.
I think its interesting when someone has a differing view on things and says so, but conversations aren't wars (some people tend to think so). People should just chill out and be themselves.