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Old 08-10-2009, 08:52 PM   #29 (permalink)
amj
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Originally Posted by tomn8er View Post
Hey so I have found myself in the unfamiliar (for me!) position of being able to date more than one women. I'm 22 and single, and at this point in my life I want to keep it that way. But I also want to explore my options and meet new people, so ideally I'd like to date a few different girls.

What I'm not sure about is whether or not I should tell them this. From my understanding most women don't like the idea of an open relationship. But at the same time, I don't want to deceive them by not telling them because I don't want anybody to get hurt. I certainly don't consider myself a player but I would like to enjoy the companionship of multiple women at this point in my life, largely because I haven't had much experience with dating or sex and I want to change that.

Any suggestions for how I can remain honest and still get what I want? Or is this too much to ask from most women?
See what they are looking for and then tell them what you are looking for. That seems to work pretty well. I understand your situation though. I have been down that same road. Just keep it real with them.
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