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Originally Posted by meg0135  ugly duckling, the fat ugly friend, the girl you ignore...i've been all of that. i still have some weight to lose and i'm not that confident but i look better than i used to.
i have very little experience with guys. i've never been on a date, except for that one time i got asked but then stood up. so now when a guy is paying attention to me i can't read if they are interested in me. usually i just assume that i'm undateable to most guys anyway. an older woman at work told me that she thought one of my co-workers likes me. now that she mentions it he did seem extra nice but i always just think Oh he's just being nice or Why would a guy like that like you anyway?
Basically my women's intuition is a little off in that sense. so how can you tell if a guy is interested in you or attracted to you? I usually just assume he is being nice unless the guy is blatantly forward about it. Or are most guys blatantly forward if they are interested? |
I'll give you a man's opinion. Confidence is attractive. Conceit is ugly and low self-esteem is ugly. If you are confident you will get what you want. If you don't feel confident, fake it. It doesn't matter if a guy likes you. What matters is whether you like the guy. Be confident and you will get what you want. Can you dig it?