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spirit4711 · 08-10-2009, 11:32 AM

You can't change other people, they can only change themselves. What you can do is inspire them. That's why I asked, what do you want in this relationship? Once you're clear on that, it's easier to decide what to do next.

So how can you support him, and are you willing to put time, energy and effort in that?

08-10-2009, 11:32 AM	#4 (permalink)
spirit4711 Family Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Nong Seng Posts: 3,975	You can't change other people, they can only change themselves. What you can do is inspire them. That's why I asked, what do you want in this relationship? Once you're clear on that, it's easier to decide what to do next. So how can you support him, and are you willing to put time, energy and effort in that?