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Originally Posted by All i Know  when i told her about the plan she was giggling and said she didnt wanna hang out just yet - i asked her if it was because of our "situation" or because she had plans. and she said a little bit of both. |
People are so good at telling us what they want, if only we would listen to them.
Attempting to pick her up when she has clearly said she doesn't want you to would definitely show you are "too possessive and need to know where she [is] at all times" - the exact reasons she wanted a break.
I wouldn't recommend 'surprising her', but you might want to think hard about why you feel the need to control her behaviour by ignoring what she has said.