Yup agree! I understand it is actually painful to have to let go of such a long lasting friendship, because I have been through similar situations before.
But before really saying the good-byes, perhaps you can meet and have a good heart-to-heart chat about how her behaviour is affecting you, and most importantly definitely affecting herself. She may have some issues or is going through a tough time now.
If that's the case perhaps you might like to see how you can help her go through this period. If you drifted because of the different speed and pace of improvement and growth in life, then chances are the values aren't very in tune. In this case, it may be better to cool off and stop contacting for a while.
Sometimes, each of us need an individual space to grow better. |