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I don't think its IM you need.
Its economics.
If something is in high supply , people take it for granted.
If something is in low supply, people want it more.
But this thing has to start out in high supply, so that its everywhere and people notice it.
Once that happens, the supply can be lowered to jack up the price and make everyone, who have already noticed it, want it.
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Quite a good analogy you've got there. If a little obtuse lol.
DQueens I think, like most people on this forum, that you are pinning yourself down by focusing solely on one person. I think we've all been in that quite extreme position before. I mean when I got dumped by my last girlfriend I obsessed over her for what must have been a month. This feeling of desire and love passed over a period of time. Eventually I started to see other people in the same way that I had seen her - truly the most liberating feeling of my life.
I think you need to take a step back. Rather then intending a 'specific' person to become immensely attracted to you, intend for a 'great, lovely, caring, romantic, sensitive' guy to walk into your life. You set the criterion yourself but make sure you focus on these points extensively.
Finally, based on the nature of your post, you might struggle to achieve such a thing with IM. It sounds, unfortunately, like the fact that he doesn't love you is already firmly ingrained into your thoughts. There is a very strong chance that will decrease the likelihood of attracting him significantly - and if you get your hopes up too high you might end up hurting yourself.