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Originally Posted by apple2121  We had a talk last night. I confronted how I was feeling and told her the 2 ways that I'm thinking.
1) I leave but I maybe regret it later.....
2) I stay but nothing changes and I'm still miserable
She told me that she loves me, which I've kind of already figured. She kept telling me that I(me) am making a dumb move and that I really don't wanna leave her. Earlier in the day I was dead set on breaking up, I even cleaned her car and was going to give her ipod back. I ended up falling into what she had to say and spending the night in her bed...
...I still feel the same as I did yesterday with knots. |
You really answered your own question here. If I were in your situation I'd be gone, regardless of what she had to say about it.
If you want any more of a clue that the relationship is unhealthy, she's attempting to emasculate you by telling you that you're making a dumb decision. That's not for her to say. She's scared for herself and doesn't care about what you think at all.
That's my take on reading what you've said, hope it helps.