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marinik · 08-07-2009, 05:40 AM

I agree with all that put the Dad in the hot seat. But it depends on the father-daughter relationship.

To be pragmatic, I would take care of the women lurking around your mothers life to control that damage first and then take care of dear Dad if you can talk to him that way.

Men in their 60's do tend to behave like teenagers when younger women are concerned, and need a verbal "spanking" but on the other hand it is their life.

Mothers on the other hand at that age seem to live in a totally different reality, more focused on maybe raising grandchildren, forgetting that that there is still a man with a sex drive around them. Times are changing but not that fast.

And again every family is a story for it self. We have to be wise and as Daffy said take into consideration all the variables in that specific equation.

08-07-2009, 05:40 AM	#19 (permalink)
marinik Legendary Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Where Living and Loving and Laughing are written into the Constitution Posts: 14,240	I agree with all that put the Dad in the hot seat. But it depends on the father-daughter relationship. To be pragmatic, I would take care of the women lurking around your mothers life to control that damage first and then take care of dear Dad if you can talk to him that way. Men in their 60's do tend to behave like teenagers when younger women are concerned, and need a verbal "spanking" but on the other hand it is their life. Mothers on the other hand at that age seem to live in a totally different reality, more focused on maybe raising grandchildren, forgetting that that there is still a man with a sex drive around them. Times are changing but not that fast. And again every family is a story for it self. We have to be wise and as Daffy said take into consideration all the variables in that specific equation.