I know how much this hurts. When I was in the same situation, I called my Dad first, told him everything I thought about all that in not very good terms. Next, I called the woman and screamed at her, using bad language and etc.
Well, now, when all of it is over and my parents are still together, my Dad forgave me, of course and I'm not sorry for a single bad word I've said to that woman (who was a friend of my Mom by the way before all that dirty business). I felt like I needed to do it, to protect my Mom, because she was lost, she couldn't do it.
I'm happy I'm not a guy, otherwise I woukd probably got physical with them, so mad I was that they insulted my Mom like that, being in her house, pretending to be her friend. Honestly, still mad with that woman and a little with my Dad, though I love him and understand his middle life crisis, he never did anything like that before.
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