He was a pretty decent looking guy, so appearance wasn't the problem.
His neighbor gave us a hint:
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A neighbor, Connie Fontanesi, said Sodini was so anti-social that "we really didn't learn anything personal about him."
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It was his personality. His thoughts. Such a shame.
The older I get, the more I see how much creative power we have. The more I see just how easy it is. We have the power to create our work, our health, our relationships. The biggest obstacle to living a life full of joyful loving authentic relationships are the negative thoughts in our heads. The thoughts that say, "Oh, everyone fights a lot. Oh, my spouse will never find me attractive. Oh, I can't be honest about this. Oh, I can't let them know how I feel. Oh, relationships are tricky and complicated." Blah blah blah. We've heard them all. Many people believe these thoughts. They'll even strongly identity with and defend them as "the TRUTH!"
Our minds create so many excuses to fail. The human race needs more excuses to succeed!