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THAnks for all your responses, it definitely helps.
Since sometimes you (as I) inadvertently find (my) yourself in a whirlwind that won't stop,

so, last night, another example...

she said "I won't get mad if you water the plants wrong again this time, in fact, I'll laugh"

15 minutes later, she asked me to print a map "like this" which she showed me there and then (all SHE had to do was click print, right there) of where she was going for work today, as which point I looked away from the screen, not knowing she had a saved copy of the map on the desktop..
so I went on the website to print the map off, from the location she wanted, I zoomed in on it, showing the exact location with surrounding roads and the landmark station, then printed off in landscape, as she passed the door a few minutes later, she saw it and went nuts, saying "what did i f**king say to you...., i need someone who can help me, not hinder me"

so at that point I just looked away, and said nothing as it was 11:30pm and her house mate had just gone to bed, not there was any point arguing over it whatsoever.

BUT, she did have a bad end to the day, as she had some issues with working for the next day (she's a freelancer), so it might be best to not to do too much for her when I'm with her, if it's not to her exact liking and she's grumpy from work. A recent conversation I had with a friend after a few too many, this keeps coming to mind - "just leave it alone"

hey ho!