Hi Ultimate,
Tony's advice is spot on, learn about things from people who are genuinely good at them, a good wing man as Tony refers to it. IE someone that gets results, not just the ones that can talk a good talk.
In fairness to everyone that posted before Tony, no-one knew at that stage wether you had a partner or not.
Please dont take my following comments to be too unkind but I'm going to be frank with you.
Your join date was more than 2 years ago and yet it has taken you this long to come up with such a crucial question?
You omit vital information from your post and thus leave people guessing on how best to help you.
Okay, nobody is perfect, just ask my wife about my faults, she'll keep you talking all day and probably most of the night but don't put the cart before the horse. Without stating the obvious. Yes, to improve your sex life you first need a partner, take it one step at a time, concentrate on that.
As for improving your sex life when you find a partner, (not your life in general as you alude to in your follow up post), I would suggest the following.
AS ssandra states go for quality not quantity, if you give someone something they like, anything. Clothes, food, entertainment, SEX, they will keep comming back for more.
I believe that sex, attraction, whatever is all about foreplay, that's the turn on for both sexes, teasing each other and taking things really slowly adds to the excitement, concentrate on her pleasure first and dont rush the actual intercourse.
As for improving your life in general, again, take it one bit at a time, chunk it down and start with the easiest stuff first, but you've got the right idea a lot of general confidence stems from sexual confidence.
Good luck.
Regards, Andy.
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