There's also the "be careful what you wish for" thought. It's like being a kid in a candy shop, but candy is not food, and not what we really want. Often we want things because of what we think they will achieve for us. Like you may want a fast sports car, because you feel that will make you more attractive to the opposite sex. The sports car isn't really what you want, it's the success with the opposite sex. and that's not really the end-point either. So what do you really want?
Joy to you
Hazel
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