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marinik · 08-06-2009, 11:43 AM

The affair is your fathers thing. The only part that I can see you should try and solve is the presence of this women in your mothers home.

I would confront her in private, threaten to make a mess of her life if she does not back out of your mothers life. Don't know how close you are to your father but I would tell him I knew and that it is immoral at least the bit with your house and mother.

I wouldn't judge them just get them out of mothers life. Unfortunately you never know what is going on. The fact your father is 65 does not change the fact that he deserves to be happy. The way he chooses to do so is a different matter all together. Life is not a simple "game".

08-06-2009, 11:43 AM	#2 (permalink)
marinik Legendary Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Where Living and Loving and Laughing are written into the Constitution Posts: 14,240	The affair is your fathers thing. The only part that I can see you should try and solve is the presence of this women in your mothers home. I would confront her in private, threaten to make a mess of her life if she does not back out of your mothers life. Don't know how close you are to your father but I would tell him I knew and that it is immoral at least the bit with your house and mother. I wouldn't judge them just get them out of mothers life. Unfortunately you never know what is going on. The fact your father is 65 does not change the fact that he deserves to be happy. The way he chooses to do so is a different matter all together. Life is not a simple "game".