I'm concerned that you are basing some of your thoughts on what your fiance said about Marie saying things to your housemates. It's gossip!!! Who knows what Marie thinks? You don't! The evidence wouldn't stand up in court.
It's quite possible that Marie has changed her thoughts since she talked to the housemates, or that she was putting on a brave front. People can change from day-to-day, so I'd not be listening to what anyone else has to say. I suggest you ask them both separately what they want to do, set ground rules and go ahead, if that's what they both want. Radiate love and care for them in your dealings. They've both been hurt, and I reckon any attempt to reconcile would be good.
Having said that, I reckon also that they are better off talking to each other alone. What they have to say is probably private and they should be saying it directly to each other, not through you.
My 2c worth!
Joy to you
Hazel
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