I had a toxic manager a couple of years ago too. She made my life hell. I know what you're saying, but I also don't think you're over it yet. The fact that you are now avoiding people like your old boss, means that you've run away, but not figured out how to deal with those types of people. Ask yourself these questions:
1. Who did my old toxic boss remind me of?
2. Who did I become when with the toxic boss?
Think on those questions, and you'll be part way there to knowing at least why the toxic boss was so toxic for you. I'd suggest you then do EFT (check my homepage) on that, until it bores you! THEN you'll be over it!
Joy to you!
Hazel
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