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Old 08-04-2009, 09:17 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by spirit4711 View Post
For some people (me for instance) this equals to 'boring' .

Anthony Robbins has some interesting POVs on this. He states that one of the six human needs is variety. Obviously you and I have different levels here .
I guess it depends on what you are looking for. If I want to be with my partner in a long run, yes, he has to be reliable. I don't want to come home and find out he hasn't paid rent one day, or whatever other commitment he didn't stick to. I don't want to constantly watch my words because he may flip out without warning.
Unpredicable may be fun to be around for a few dates or at a few parties, but not every day of my life. By the way, I don't think reliable is incompatible with adventurous - I like to think I am both.
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