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James81 · 08-02-2009, 02:47 AM

As a 27 year old who is currently chasing after a 19 year old girl, here's some things you should do to help him know you are interested:

1. First of all, be SINGLE. If you have a boyfriend, it's likely he's going to back off. I don't know if you have a boyfriend, but if you do, free yourself up and make yourself fully available.

2. Flirt with him. Show your interest in more upfront ways. As guys, we don't notice those little subtle clues you give us. We notice concrete, more blunt interest.

3. Take care of yourself. If you are overweight, get on a diet plan and lose the lbs. Don't be afraid to dress a little sexy. You don't have to be overt, but clothes that hug your body are real turn ons for men.

4. Show him that great personality you have. As good as you look, it won't mean much if you don't have the personality to match it.

5. Tease him, be playful with him.

08-02-2009, 02:47 AM	#8 (permalink)
James81 Banned Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 12,690	As a 27 year old who is currently chasing after a 19 year old girl, here's some things you should do to help him know you are interested: 1. First of all, be SINGLE. If you have a boyfriend, it's likely he's going to back off. I don't know if you have a boyfriend, but if you do, free yourself up and make yourself fully available. 2. Flirt with him. Show your interest in more upfront ways. As guys, we don't notice those little subtle clues you give us. We notice concrete, more blunt interest. 3. Take care of yourself. If you are overweight, get on a diet plan and lose the lbs. Don't be afraid to dress a little sexy. You don't have to be overt, but clothes that hug your body are real turn ons for men. 4. Show him that great personality you have. As good as you look, it won't mean much if you don't have the personality to match it. 5. Tease him, be playful with him.