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At the moment salsa dancing is quite far out of my comfort zone, to the point where it would feel real weird going along.
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When I started with Salsa I felt the same way about it.
It teaches you comfortable interaction with the opposite sex while having body contact which is proabably an area where you have little experience.
Building skills is about showing up and moving outside your comfort zone. There's no faster way to learn.
And if you aren't comforable with touching the opposite sex while being on a date that's a problem for you.
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The other thing is you're 23, and getting told "if you were 5 years older" but I'm 27 and 28 in about 2.5 months, but I look like I'm 22-23, but that's alright, I've figured it's best not to think too much about it, unless I want to grow a beard or something, which I don't really..
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Woman tell you "if you were 5 years older" when you communicate a vibe of having little experience around woman.
They fact that you are two young is simply the best explanation for them of why you are communicating that kind of vibe.
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But I can't really expect to find girls that are going there to hook up, they're not pickup joints, everyones there to see the band, but if you meet someone it's cool.
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It certainly possible to meet girls there, but it requires you to approach girls witch is hard and outside your comfort zone.