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Originally Posted by this is fun  This is true. If you like dancing of course. I used to take salsa lessons and there were always more women than men, so we kind of 'shared' them. The men ended up dancing the whole lesson while we had to wait our turn  |
Which is a great place for a guy to be...
This is a great point, and even if you don't like dancing... it might be useful to learn to love it because of the ratio of women to men.
There is a structure here... find what women are into, that men typically aren't, and do that. You'll meet tons of women, and in those enviroments, you will have virtually no competition. Dance, yoga, pilates, interior design, and a wide variety of arts and crafts are a good place to start.
Be cautious about how far you take this... if you are the guy that is into everything 'girly', it can come off a little weird.
I would encourage you to avoid bars and clubs, as these are typically the opposite. Plenty of guys trying to pick up women... and the women frequently develop 'defenses' to deal with this... you won't have to worry about that at a dance class.
keep smiling,
Ben