[brendannz]

OK, my lifes going pretty well at the moment. I'm seeing progress all the time in most areas of my life, which is what it's all about I think! I've sold 5 original paintings this month (possibly 6 or 7 but think it's 5). There's other things in my life that are going awesome, and I have things to look forward to.. Won't go into too much detail..

There's one area of my life I'm not seeing lots of improvement in.. (Although posssibly my time thinking about it has improved me for future encounters. )

Meeting women. I really like women a lot, but don't seem to meet and interact with lots of them on a regular basis. I figure the best way to be attractive is to be happy, so I try and do more things that will make me happy.. I'm an introvert, but some things I like going out to do, which make me happy, are playing basketball (on an outdoor court with new people), but I only meet males when I do that.. and also going to live music. So I'm trying to find about one gig a month to go to. Basically if I'm feeling good, I'll smile more, so I'll be more attractive. So maybe I need to find new activities which will make me happy..

But also want to know places that are good to meet women other than women who are employed to serve behind a counter? It sounds a bit absurd because there's more women than men in my country.. But yeah, anyway, does anyone know any good ways / places to meet cool & intelligent women? I work from home, so have no women in my office..

I tend to believe connecting with them is more likely to happen naturally when I'm relaxed and feeling good.. (sometimes my problem is just that I can't relax)

But yeah, was wondering if anyone has any tips for meeting the opposite sex, other than dating sites.