Beauty's in the eye, remember?
I once worked with a cereal dater. She would insist on going to the best resturant in town if a guy asked her out. She would look at it as getting a good meal.
She dated a lot. It wasn't that she was so good looking, she just looked like she'd put out.
One time she went out with a client from work. We all knew who he was and how he was. He was yukky! The worst part about him was his looks! His nose made Carl Malden's nose look small! To put it as nicely as I can, he was a very unattractive man, inside and out.
I used to laugh at her dating ways, but after that, I lost respect for her. Honest physical attraction has a beauty of it's own, no matter what you look like.
If you fake an attraction for money, meals, or looks, it has a dishonesty about it that makes you and who you're with seem fake.
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