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Old 07-31-2009, 03:42 AM   #25 (permalink)
tomn8er
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Default Just to reiterate

So far it's been my experience that most young women are averse to open relationships. I think for women it's harder to accept this idea because they don't want to appear like a slut for sleeping with several men, and then it kind of becomes a matter of "well if I can't have it, why should he??" In her eyes, this makes it seem that she isn't equal to the man because she has to share him with other women.

I can sympathize with these apprehensions but I think it's unfortunate that such fears seem to form the majority view. I wish people would be more open with their love rather than only sharing it with one other person.... as if giving it away too freely will somehow cheapen it. Love is NOT an expendable good!!!
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