Sally's advice is the most realistic and truthful by far.
Although I don't have a lot of time right now to clarify my thoughts, simply I think the problem stems from just having the notion of "friends", "relationships" and "love".
I know it makes it easier to categorise things but in doing so you limit them and yourself. There is no procedure for a friendship or a relationship.There is no one way or one type.
Colm
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