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Originally Posted by Coffeesmurf  Exactly 
I didn't treat her like a flower, but I did ditch all my own needs to help her through a very hard period, emotionally. Ironically, trying to help her by always being there for her and listening to her problems ultimately killed her attraction to me.
I knew she had mental health problems before we started dating - so I should have known better than to get involved in the first place. It did teach me a lot about myself, though. |
Well, that sucks, but are you blaming yourself for her mental problems? Sounds more like you did all you could and she might not have really been worthy of you. (possibly) You learnt a lot about yourself, so that's a good thing!