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Old 07-30-2009, 12:00 PM   #36 (permalink)
Coffeesmurf
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Originally Posted by brendannz View Post
Yeah, honesty is best, because if you're not honest how far you get will only be short lived..
Exactly

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Girls want to be treated like humans, not delicate flowers, which might be why you were too nice..
I didn't treat her like a flower, but I did ditch all my own needs to help her through a very hard period, emotionally. Ironically, trying to help her by always being there for her and listening to her problems ultimately killed her attraction to me.

I knew she had mental health problems before we started dating - so I should have known better than to get involved in the first place. It did teach me a lot about myself, though.
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