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Old 07-30-2009, 03:19 AM   #3 (permalink)
Abitofzen
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It's the whole package you need.
Jennifer
I agree.

I have met many women that I initially found 'beautiful'... but found them less and less attractive as I got to know them. I've also become more and more attracted to women once I've developed a connection with them.

What's weird... is it actually seems to change the way the woman looks to me.

The woman that I've deeply connected with, who seemed rather plain before, suddenly has a very nice shape, a very sensual tone, or an exotic beauty to her face. I don't plan this. I don't consciously look for it. It just 'appears' when I connect or 'hit it off' with a woman.

On the other hand, I occasionally begin to notice fewer and fewer attractive qualities of women who aren't a good mental/emotional match for me... the gorgeous face is now just "kind of attractive"... the amazing curves are now just "OK, I guess..."

Ahhh the power of my mind.

Where will it lead me next?

The best advice I could offer anyone in this area... Learn what you like. Learn what is really important to you. Honor that... build on that... and let it happen!

keep smiling,

Ben
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