Well to clarify, he asked me out, texted me consistently through the day, but then the date never came to be. It didn't really phase me at the time, it didn't click or whatever, so I just stayed friendly, said hey, talked to him a few times. But then he started the chase and pull back stuff. After reading some of the comments, I decided that maybe some of them were right and it seemed like I was playing games too. So tonight when I saw him, I waved, smiled and went about my business. He doesn't owe me any explanations. I have no claims on him.
So being out of the "game" for so long, I'm just not sure of my footing and didn't realize that I was actually playing the game without realizing it. Now all I have to do is figure out if I want to play or not.
I appreciate all the input and would like to hear any ideas you have about getting back into dating. Not looking for a long term, just some light hearted fun with an occassional side benefit
