My first answer would be to be as straight as possible and just tell her, and she will react: "I want you to know that you're more than a friend to me. How do you feel about it?"
Hey, if you'd really be that socially fearful, you'd have no friends (I know what I'm talking about!).
The best and probably most helpful advice that I can give you is to express yourself and your feelings as open and honestly as you can. If you're affraid to tell her what you feel for her, tell her that. If you're affraid that she will laugh at you of never speak a word to you again, say that. Just be honest about your feelings, but be straight and don't speak endlessly without coming to the point of saying her what you feel for her!
I'm so proud of you to be honest to yourself about your feelings, and I'm sending you the energy and love you need to master that situation! Face your fears, and you will see them magically disappear!
Love
Tobias
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