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Old 07-28-2009, 07:29 PM   #6 (permalink)
Grindin
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you want the truth?

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When we met we where roommates and at first all we did was drink coffee and have endless talks about politics, philosophy and previous relationships.
First mistake. You set your frame as a intellectual wimp who needed to spew all your past occurances into her world.

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I started crying like a baby and told her I loved her and I didnt want this to happen. I kept on asking her why and she said she was afraid she didnt love me as much as I loved her, but she was still in love with me
Overall man I would say this will be a huge learning experience for you. Don't worry about getting this chick back, you've completely ****ed the frame of the relationship over. If you ever do try and get back the whole thing will be you trying to earn back respect which will turn into her having power over the entire relationship. Not worth it. Don't let emotions dictate your life.

I know you wont take my advice, cause your 'in love', but here it is, undistilled, anyway.
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