You can also visualize the spirit in a "soap bubble" and send him away. Or ask him what he wants. Let him startle you, but don't fear him. Once you get the point across that you're not going to let him play around with you, he will no longer be able to (unless he is very strong, but your fear of him is the deciding factor. once you can master that fear and act, you deny him his power).
Furthermore, the asking part is something I really mean. Don't take any answers meant to scare you. Sometimes even spirits get frustrated and don't know how to "go into the light", and finding somebody with enough understanding to penetrate through their "bully/ass" behavior can help them find their way again.
If he insists on giving you trouble instead, or if this seems to be demanding too much from you, draw your line in the sand.
You may find Erin's accounts of how she had to "fight" Freddy Krueger in her dreams. Dealing with uninvited spirit guests often follows the same basic rules. Once you conquer your fear, you're on firm ground.
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