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Originally Posted by starchamber 
My gut told me he had an attraction for my girlfriend and that prompted the discussion. Now when she's around I feel nervous and have lost my confidence.
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My ex would talk about my bf after sex. You do know in your gut if there is an attraction there. It ended both relationships. I lost trust for both of them.
You do need to talk with him about how this makes you feel. And you need to ask yourself if you can get behond this. I would think it would be very hard to be making love knowing he might not be present with you. And I get the feeling it's more about making love for you than having hot sex.
Depending on the situation, mental cheating can be just as bad as cheating.
Talk to him. He sounds like a good guy and maybe you're making more of this than he ever would. If I were you I would most want to know how often he thinks of other women when he's making love to you. No woman needs that!
Keep us posted! I understand how hard this is for you.