subtle judgements about a first impression on someone's dress,etc...for most of that catch ourselves or it just isn't an issue for us...passes quickly. the only harm we do is to ourselves if we hang on to it without letting someone really present themselves to us.
judgement about "idiots" in traffic...well sometimes that is like judging an "idiot" that you see running with blood on themselves. could be hurt and getting help...could've just killed someone and running from the scene. a crazy driver could be having an emergency...but they could also be drunk and a danger to other drivers.
judgement on a lot of posts has been touted as being some evil psychological deformity...it is not always valid, it is not always fair, it can be hurtful, it can be dead wrong...but sometimes quick "judgement" is no more than a quick evaluation of one's surroundings and circumstances and can be a justified way to chose our next step, our next movement in life.
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