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tomn8er · 07-27-2009, 06:10 PM

Hey so I have found myself in the unfamiliar (for me!) position of being able to date more than one women. I'm 22 and single, and at this point in my life I want to keep it that way. But I also want to explore my options and meet new people, so ideally I'd like to date a few different girls.

What I'm not sure about is whether or not I should tell them this. From my understanding most women don't like the idea of an open relationship. But at the same time, I don't want to deceive them by not telling them because I don't want anybody to get hurt. I certainly don't consider myself a player but I would like to enjoy the companionship of multiple women at this point in my life, largely because I haven't had much experience with dating or sex and I want to change that.

Any suggestions for how I can remain honest and still get what I want? Or is this too much to ask from most women?

07-27-2009, 06:10 PM	#1 (permalink)
tomn8er Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 146	dating multiple women Hey so I have found myself in the unfamiliar (for me!) position of being able to date more than one women. I'm 22 and single, and at this point in my life I want to keep it that way. But I also want to explore my options and meet new people, so ideally I'd like to date a few different girls. What I'm not sure about is whether or not I should tell them this. From my understanding most women don't like the idea of an open relationship. But at the same time, I don't want to deceive them by not telling them because I don't want anybody to get hurt. I certainly don't consider myself a player but I would like to enjoy the companionship of multiple women at this point in my life, largely because I haven't had much experience with dating or sex and I want to change that. Any suggestions for how I can remain honest and still get what I want? Or is this too much to ask from most women?