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Originally Posted by Cheshire Cat  Many people would rather be accepted and loved for who they are than substantially change themselves for the sake of someone else. |
Yes! I can speak for that! I tried to change myself to make things work. I changed so much that I was behaving and talking like my ex. it's not a bad thing if you really want to be like your partner. But if it makes you feel "unhappy" that you have lost yourself, then you need to think twice. You are you, and you are unique. Keep your core with you and your partner should love you just the way your are. Minor changes are to enhance the quality of the relationship, but not total revamp of your self worth.
Cut the story short, so much that I have changed, my ex still left me - for the reason that he doesn't feel connected with me
perhaps he dislikes a "clone" of him
he is a weirdo, and I shall not take him to make generalization.