As much as I hate when people make character traits all with the same letter so it makes for a nice little "talking point," I'll throw these out simply because they fit so well with what I think makes a good man:
1. Confidence....this involves knowing what you want and who you are, loving yourself, and not being afraid to assert yourself to get the things you want, without having to turn into a complete ******* to do it.
2. Character...meaning, you have interests, hobbies, opinions and you don't bend them for anybody. And on the flip side, you have certain areas that you CAN bend so that you aren't completely impossible to deal with. Essentially, it's a code that you follow that is consistent, but not completely unwavering. You have things that you stand for no matter what, and other things that you can let slide given the situation.
3. Charisma....instead of tearing everyone around you down to lift yourself up, instead, you are the type of person who lifts yourself up anybody and strives to bring those around you UP to your level. You realize that you are a great place to be, and, as such, you want to bring the people around you into your world so that they can experience all the great things you have to offer. You're fun and playful, yet know when to be serious and go after the things you want. You aren't pushed around easily, but you are compassionate.
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