[sallyfrieldam]

hi pjgat09

If you can let her know that you like her. She will likely take it as a compliment and then will tell you how she feels. I know its hard but at least you'll know you gave it a shot.

Women definitely have the ability to fall in love with their friends. We dont segregate people into different categories. Loads of my female friends are in relationships with men they were friends with. My boyfriend and I were friends for six months and have been together for six years.

A pattern I have noticed with some men is that they fancy a girl and become her friend in the hopes of going out with her. I know a girl called Sarah and she is stunning, both in looks and personality. Girls dont like being friends with her (its hard not to feel jealous next to someone every guy fancies)and guys are friends with her whilst there is a hope she may fancy them. Its really sad because a lot of the guys end up taking out their hurt feelings on sarah and being nasty to her when they realise she isnt interested in them in that way and dump her because they were never her friend in the first place, they just wanted to get something from her.

So its likely that your friend will not mind you finding her attractive and if you can be ok with her whatever happens she will probably really appreciate that too

Good luck!