it should be simple, but this can be a a toughie....
my husband and i went clubbing last night with a single friend and we all talked about how the girls all dance with the girls and the guys all hang with the guys and watch...and you could come back years later, the club name has changed and the faces are older but still the same.
it is a wonder how people can get together at all, but it depends on what you are looking for...i think honesty is best at letting people down...i hate it when girls are so arrogant and nasty when guys they don't care for approach them.
if you are looking for someone for a possible relationship, then i wouldn't linger with the ones that you really aren't interested in that way...and keep moving and mingling.
i think there was a thread about people of the opposite sex being able to be just friends.....
main thing, don't if you can , even unintentionally, let someone think you might be interested...that's the part that hurts more than finding out that you are not.
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