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siryessir08 · 07-26-2009, 02:56 AM

It's pretty much established that many gay guys are born that way. They were simply never attracted to girls.

Were lesbians born that way though? All the lesbians I know (4, so far) had relationships with men in the past that they enjoyed, and they were attracted to men (at least at the time, and 3 still did occasionally enjoy a male).

Then they experimented with an intimate relationship with another girl, and decided they like girls better.

So the lesbians I've talked to all made the choice to be gay.

Just curious.

07-26-2009, 02:56 AM	#1 (permalink)
siryessir08 Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Cleveland, Ohio Posts: 205	Is lesbianism a choice? It's pretty much established that many gay guys are born that way. They were simply never attracted to girls. Were lesbians born that way though? All the lesbians I know (4, so far) had relationships with men in the past that they enjoyed, and they were attracted to men (at least at the time, and 3 still did occasionally enjoy a male). Then they experimented with an intimate relationship with another girl, and decided they like girls better. So the lesbians I've talked to all made the choice to be gay. Just curious.