There are people who "just know" and then there the others who need a nudge to be sure. And not in retrospect. The ones that just know act upon the feeling and pursue the relationship until it happens.
Cheating is cheating. If you are in a relationship with someone (no matter how right or wrong they are for you in the given space and time) and he/she is believing it is a monogamous relationship and you committed to it... But there are reasons that can be understood and those who cheat out of sport.
Will you cheat again.. who knows.
I am in a very similar situation. What will I do. Haven't got clue. We have to figure it all out for ourselves unfortunately.
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