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I'm soooo confused and sad atm and its a horrible combination. Any tips on what line of thinking is best or what I should tell myself, is it smart to be hoping on a happy ending?
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At this moment there is nothing but feel positive about it all. Tell yourself it for the best. Try and find what is it you truly want from this relationship and how you want it. Maybe the 6 weeks will be a great thing for you both.
And then there is only time... sorry but it is the truth. Time is the only cure. You can try and DO something to stop thinking about the split...work of some kind..just to stop thinking.. but as far as I can see you are in no state yet, to take any action but go through the rainbow of feelings you are going right now. Look at a previous breakups and remember how they felt then and how they feel now about. It helps.. but there is always abut... people usually answer with "But this is different.." No it is not. Sometimes it is funny in retrospect how we thought our world was falling apart and today we know it was for the best that we did brake up with that person years ago.
Basically it is your Ego acting up in many ways. If you have the strength to step aside and just watch what is going around in your head it is a fantastic learning opportunity. Maybe you will be ready to try this in a few days.
So give yourself the right to feel as you do... try to occupy yourself with something else but alcohol. And give yourself the time and space you need!