Hey I read your intial post, and I must ask: is this really your first relationship ever, or just your first serious relationship? My suggestion would be, that if it's not working out, maybe try seeing some other people.
I'm not one of those people that believes in soul mates. I feel that we have different levels of compatibility with different people, and the more relationships you have, the more you know about yourself and what you like. Whether you agree with me on that or not, it might be something to think about.
Erock
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