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Originally Posted by MiBeloved  Main lesson for you is that even if you make the perfect plan with the best positive thinking from the best “feel good” guru, reality might counteract what you desire. Your plans for the ideal life might go up in smoke. So it is best to take hints from reality when designing your life and planning outcomes. |
and wen reality counteracts your dream, do we not grow by fighting it. wen reality didnt allow man to fly, did we not beat it with the airplane, when reality wouldnt allow us to hear or see over long distances did we not overcome with the telephone and recordable and visual equipment
wen reality gave certain diseases did we not beat it with synthetic drugs?
Man beats reality all the time, wen reality comes stronger, so do we.
besides wat people call reality is only perception.
You cannot for definate say wat reality is.
take a look at the laptop you are typing on. if you had never seen technology would you have believed it possible
it was a few years back wen reality said the world was flat, or the leaving european immigrants would never be great and now we have America, or a black man could never be president of the USA (with an Arab sounding name at that)
much would not be acheived if pioneers entertained so-called reality on the way to their goal
To the OP. if you truely believe he is good for you and you child, fight for him, what have you got to lose