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Marriage - What's the point?
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Other than for legal rights recognition, none at all. You can commit to a person, forever even, without the need for one. Commitment is from the heart, not a piece of metal on a finger.
I just think marriage really complicates a situation when you want to get out(having been there I know). You are literally at the mercy of the other person to behave themselves. And if you're the one that wants out and they don't, what is their motivation to behave themselves?
Who is to say how I feel about someone now, even if I love them like hell, is how I will feel about them in 10 years? I certainly hope so, but as a realist, I know anything is possible. Humans--our nature is a need to cage ourselves!
That said, I may choose to cage myself one of these days -- and I want it to look like this: (I think weddings are dumb, but this one blew me away)
YouTube - JK Wedding Entrance Dance
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