I am so sorry for you. I cannot imagine the pain you must be experiencing during this time.
The way I see it is that he is doing you a favor. Be glad this happened now rather than 3, 4, 5, 10 years down the road. Think of all the time and more of your youth that would have been wasted. After all, would you really want him to stay if he did not want to? Of course not. I believe things happen for a reason and there is something better when you get further down your path. As far as your daughter is concerned, you will realize that she is the best thing you have ever accomplished. Right now you are just so overcome with grief that you just don't seem to be realizing that yet. He is the one missing out and the best "revenge" ( harsh word) you have is to take that job, focus on your daughter and keep your momentum going forward. Let him later look back and realize what he missed out on.
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