 running away isn't the only optio
I've been hitting the same problem too, low self esteem girls who end up being more hassle than they're worth and trying to help them not working.
But I refuse to accept that the only answer to a situation is "give up and get as far away as possible"
especially since that would mean writing off about 75% of the population as useless to me-guys, girls, old, young, pretty, ugly, I get the hottest, toughest, smartest people tell me they're shy around stangers all the time.
I have more than my own fair share of messed up emotional problems, but I have people who help, that if they hadn't told me the truth I would be a hell of a lot worse than I am now.
To start with better question might be "how do you convince someone to listen to the help you're trying to give them when they don't want to listen?"
How do you get someone to listen when they refuse to believe its their problem? ("why do these things keep happening to me?", "Men are all bastards" "girls never sleep with nice guys)) |