Tradition doesn't play a huge role in my life. In most cases I kind of revile it, actually. Nor do family values as defined by other people. The legal aspects and "credibility" aspects are like meh as well. If one is careful, they can enjoy legal safety no matter what kind of relationship they choose. Credibility smacks of approval and I don't need anyone's.
So I speak only of the human-to-human benefits of marriage. I know many people are drawn here because of Steve's ideas about polyamory and whatnot but, while I won't deny being attracted to other men, I love the idea of this great person who has decided to be betrothed to me and I to him. I believe that many humans are designed emotionally and mentally to have a mate for life. Many others shouldn't even pretend they are cut out for it but they insist in doing so.
It has nothing to do with sex, or money or society's views, lord knows it wasn't for religion. I just love him and he loves me. We enjoy each other's company. We share a bond. We don't complicate our bond with other outside influences.
So we got married. A committment to our bond.
Jennifer
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