I think every thing you pointed out is all part of it. But the fact that you get married with a license will not keep two people together. When I got married it was more about tradition and family values. At this point in my life. I think if I were to get back together with someone, I would look at just living together. However two people have to agree to that. I think from a womans point of veiw in most cases, it's to their advantage to seal the deal with a license. Being married will give you time to cool off before calling it quits forever. My advise is just be sure before the "I Do" part.
